タビスタ | まったく新しいオンライン英会話
[C] Talking about Relationships II

LET'S UNLOCK WORDS AND PHRASES 🔐

mediocre

[ mee-dee-'oh-ker]

adjective

- not good enough

I thought the book was pretty mediocre.

gesture

[ 'jes-cher ]

noun

- an action that expresses your feelings or intentions

The invitation was meant as a friendly gesture.

sacrifice

[ 'sak-ruh-fahys ]

verb

- to give up something for something else considered more important

He sacrificed his vacation to work on his book.

lose touch

noun

- to stop communicating with each other

The lost touch when Angela got married and moved away.

for good

phrase

- forever

Their factory had to close down for good.

LET'S UNDERSTAND! 📚

A. Drift apart

  • gradually become less friendly and the relationship ends

DRIFT APART

Dialogue

Icon_Sally

Sally

Who's the person in the photo with you?

Icon_Anna Happy

Anna

That's my best friend from middle school.

Icon_Sally

Sally

Oh, that's really cool. Do you still keep in touch with her?

Icon_Anna Happy

Anna

No, unfortunately not. After she went to college in L.A., we gradually lost touch and eventually drifted apart. It's sad but I'll always cherish the memories we shared growing up.

B. Mutual friend

  • a person who is the friend of two people who may or may not know each other

MUTUAL FRIEND

Dialogue

Icon_Mike

Mike

Hey Alexa, have you had the chance to work with the new graphic artist yet?

Icon_Sakura

Alexa

Actually, I already know him.

Icon_Mike

Mike

No way! How do you two know each other?

Icon_Sakura

Alexa

We met through a mutual friend, and we also attended the same graduate school. He's not only a nice person but also incredibly talented.

C. Settle for

  • accept something, often something that is not exactly what you want or is not the best

SETTLE FOR

Dialogue

Icon_Sally

Sally

Hey Cindy, have you given any thought to where you want to move for retirement?

Icon_Cindy

Cindy

I've always dreamed of living in a house by the beach, so California is at the top of my list. However, the cost of living is quite high, and I don't think I can afford it. So, I'd have to settle for a house somewhere along the middle coast.

Icon_Sally

Sally

I understand. It's important to find a place that you can comfortably afford without sacrificing your retirement savings.

D. Make up

  • forgive each other and be friendly again

MAKE UO

Dialogue

Icon_Take

Take

Sally, those are beautiful flowers. What's the occasion?

Icon_Sally

Sally

I'm giving them to my mom as a peace offering. I upset her last night, and I want to make up with her.

Icon_Take

Take

That's a really thoughtful gesture, Sally. It shows how much you care about your relationship with your mom.

E. Go out with

  • have a romantic relationship with

GO OUT WITH

Dialogue

Icon_Sally

Sally

Cindy, you look amazing! Are you headed somewhere special?

Icon_Cindy

Cindy

Thanks, Sally! I'm actually going out with my boyfriend for our anniversary dinner tonight.

Icon_Sally

Sally

Congratulations! How long have you been going out with him?

Icon_Cindy

Cindy

Today marks our third anniversary. I can hardly believe it's been three years already.

LET'S PRACTICE!

PART I.

Direction: Fill in the blanks with the correct idiomatic expression. Make sure to use the correct tenses as well.

make up mutual friend
go out with drift apart
settle for
  1. I met John through a , and was introduced to the rest of the crew through him.

  2. Unfortunately, the long distance between us cause my partner and I to .

  3. Alice was a perfectionist. She was not just prepared to anything mediocre.

  4. I'm nervous about asking Emily to , but I really like her.

  5. After not speaking for months, Sam and his brother finally at their family reunion.

PART II.

Direction: Listen as your mentor reads the statements twice. Then, repeat the sentences.

  1. 🔊

  2. 🔊

  3. 🔊

PART III.

Direction: Describe the picture using the words or phrases provided.

SETTLE FOR

1. ( settle for / concert )

FRIENDS

2. ( drift apart , for good )